I say this only because I care....

When you make any statement like this, it's none of your business in the first place.  You are Negative Nancy and to the rest of the world that phrase never good to hear.  It tends to come from a person who instead of giving you postive feedback from a situation, you most likely will get " well remember what you went thru I would hate to see you go thru it again, just sayin cause I care,". My ass, they wanna blow whatever night you had right, or if you think the situation is going well, ask that friend and they will have you question everything after speaking with them. I will let you know, "I say this only because I care," are out there, so be aware! Sometimes its ok to go with the way you feel,  cause Nancy wont be negative on mine.